What Can You Do When Life Hits You Hard?

Hey,

I do not know who is reading this post. But this post is just a friendly reminder that life has its ways to bring the strongest ones down at a certain point.

I know we all go through a lot in life. Each year life brings up new exciting challenges, no matter if you are in your teenage, adulthood, or childhood. Some people go through adversities and traumas at a very young age. Which I think is the best to grow in all areas. As we know growth comes with maturity and maturity comes with experiences and most importantly how you deal with them.

My turning point was when I turned 23. I was away from my family for the first time in my life. Not in a new city or area, but in an entirely different country. The choice was super hard for me as well as for my family. But one has to make hard choices to excel in life.

My journey to Germany was not easy. There were a lot of struggles with this decision. A long waiting time and the constant struggle to make this happen. For some people that might not look like much of a big deal. But trust me it was the most challenging decision I ever took.

Moving to a new place in your early 20’s not knowing what life brings and having the courage to manage life on its own is a big deal. When I moved to Germany my goals were pretty simple, finish my degree, get a good job, and nationality. Thats it!

But what a wonder, I had to redefine my life and each goal associated with it. In the year 2021, the constant breaking points were not easy to handle. Anyhow to be precise, all the downfalls and adversities shaped me into a different person. In the year 2022, I struggled a lot with my healing journey. It took me a long time to accept a few truths and realities of life. I recovered pretty well. It made me stronger and better every time. In the year 2023, I redefined my life and started from zero all over again.

So, this post is dedicated to the transformation I am going to make in 2023. For anyone who reads this, just know that it's never too late, and it's not a bad idea to start again from zero or nothing.

This year, I am starting with unlearning my past experiences. setting my personal and professional goals and achieving them. The best way to transform me into a successful entrepreneur was to start with small habits. I started getting disciplined again, it was not easy at all. I am still recovering and structuring my personal life.

How did I start with small habits?

So, I would like to tell you that. You might not be strong at the moment. You might not be in a good place. But you can always choose. Remember it's always about the next move, which matters the most. Just be consistent with good habits. Everything in life will fall into place at the right time. We can not avoid fear but we can decide not to allow it to control us.

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